In most public restrooms there is a prime urinal (usually situated in a corner) that most people use. Or at the very least, you have a favorite urinal that you use, like in the bathroom at your place of work. If you enter the bathroom and there is only one other person in there who has just stepped away from said urinal, which is still in the process of flushing, do you walk up to that urinal or do you go to a different one?
Honestly if you think that much about it there’s clearly self-esteem/sexuality questioning going on. When I walk into a Men’s room, the first thing I think is “sweet open urinal” and I’ll pee in it. Don’t care if it’s next to someone, still flushing, has dividers or what. Hell, I’ll pee in the sink if it’s the only porcelain with a drain in the place.
Use the flushing urinal. Now if this question was about pooping in a toilet — use a different toilet.
Yeah, nothing worst than sitting down and feeling it’s still warm. There’s something oddly creepy about that.
That is the issue for girls. I prefer to use the first stall at work, however if the other two are empty and someone walks out of the first as I walk in, it’s kind of creepy to take that one as the toilet is still flushing and the seat is warm, so I go for the second, saving the handicapped stall for desperate measures.
As long as I don’t have to wait for him to clear the urinal, I go to the urinal.
“Him” was originally “them,” but then I realized that not many women use the urinal.
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Having pretty bad paruresis, I almost always use a stall. I can only use a urinal if I’m extremely desperate or if it’s a single-user bathroom, generally.
Lately the urinal at work has been covered with curly black pubes. Someone must be shedding their winter coat of fur!
I hate urinals and never use them except when I’m desperate. And if I’m THAT desperate, I just grab whatever urinal is available.
And at work, we have a small bathroom with just a toilet in it. It’s not a multipurpose room.
But Craiggers, seriously, if your first thought upon entering a bathroom is “How busy is my favorite urinal?” instead of “Wow, look at the hot guy standing at the one next to my favorite urinal…wonder if I could get him into a stall with me?” then you really need to reevaluate your bathroom priorities.
Or perhaps, I do.
HUGS…
Maybe Craig doesn’t share the bathroom with any hot guys.
Maybe public bathrooms are the least sexy place on the face of the planet.
Agreed.
I was thinking of what it would take to make a sexy public bathroom, but it involved eliminating the public part.
And the pee and poo part.
Well, obviously sexy time and utilitarian time must be kept separate with the staff cleaning in between.
Oh for God’s sake people, it’s not the BATHROOM that’s hot and sexy, it’s the GUY who’s hot and sexy! You can find them ANYWHERE, a funeral, a grocery store, and yes, even a public restroom. And if getting it on with a hot guy in a place of questionable sexiness offends your delicate sensibilities, then I’m not surprised most of your dates are with your right hand.
Having said that, I’ve rarely walked out of a hot masturbation session will a strand of toilet paper stuck on my shoe. So there is that.
HUGS….
Don’t you guys watch porn? We all know that is totally like real life, and they seem to find public toilets totally sex.
Are you telling me it’s not true? *gasp* My illusions have been shattered.
In porn, you can’t smell the bathroom.
Out of all of this I found the still warm toilet seat the most disturbing. Never thought of that…
*mentally comforts Tam for her shattered illusions*
Next thing you’ll tell me they aren’t really in love either. *sob*
That’s what married porn stars/amateur porn is for.
I can only add one thing to this conversation is that statistically, the first urinal is the cleanest. I don’t mind urinals and tend to go to the first one that is open.
Being that the restroom in my office only has one urinal I don’t have this dilemma. I think using the still flushing urinal is fine, if you are attached to it. Just don’t tell the previous pisser not to flush so you can save water, that might be a touch odd.